This is the final blog for my class, but I am sure I will try to continue to post (since I know you LOVE reading what I have to say)
Although this week there is so much on my mind, so many topics to choose from….so forgive me in advance for my random ramblings this week.
On the top of everyone’s mind is the killing of Osama (Usama) Bin Laden (by the way, Usama is believed to be the “literal” translation) I am glad he is dead; I know it may sound wrong to wish death on someone, but he has hurt soooo many people. What he ready deserved though, was to be tortured, and to receive a slow and agonizing death.
Another topic on the minds of Arizonans, at least those in the Phoenix area, is the death/killing of a local Buckeye officer. This brutal slaying just shows how heartless criminals can be. They have absolutely no regard for life. It is especially affecting the community of Buckeye because the slain officer was also an SRO (School Resource Officer) which means he was on campus to assist the students. These officers (both men and women) give their lives each and every day they work; even when they’re not “working” they are still “on duty”. And I especially hate those that have no regard for how hard they work, and the sacrifices they make so we can be safe. Not ALL cops are bad apples, not ALL cops ignore the Constitution and Civil Liberties. We need to RESPECT authority! These are jobs that not everyone could do, not everyone can be a cop. It’s a tough tough job, just like teachers, nurses, doctors, firefighters and others. Jobs no one wants and only a select few can fill. May the officer rest in peace knowing he has done his job to the fullest. And may the injured officer have a speedy recovery. The last I heard the dirtbag who ran is in custody. May the officers get the justice they deserve!
I’ve also thought about potty training this week and other disciplines (for your child). I’ve been losing my temper a lot lately, and I know it doesn’t do any good for my daughter; but I’m sure we can all agree, it’s really hard sometimes. My daughter is almost 3 and is “barely” potty training. She still wears diapers to bed (to prevent accidents) and she will sometimes wear a diaper in public (or at home with me) but for the most part she is going on the potty. Can’t wait til she can do it 100% by herself (right now she needs us to “help” her in the restroom)
Oh, and I got her ears pierced a couple weeks ago too. She LOVES them. I thought hubby would be mad at me, but instead he was excited that she looks more like a girl now (she has short hair) my dad, however, thought my mom and I were idiots for doing it. I guess because Jules is so young and was it really “her decision” to do it. And of course because my hubby and I have to “take care” of them. But it’s what she wanted, she has been asking my mom and I to get pretty earrings for a while now. J And it turns out she was ready; she did SUPER and has done so well keeping up on them. Score one for moms!
And lastly there’s the matter of motivation. I have just completely LACKED in that area for a while now. I’m not sure what it is. I don’t know if it’s an imbalance, or what. I really need to get a handle on it though, I have my last weeks of the semester (next week is it for Spring) and then I only have 2 semesters left til I graduate. I have cleaning to do; it’s not fair my hubby come home and cleans after working all day (outside of the home). Granted, he is always telling me taking care of our daughter is FT time, many would agree, some would disagree, and I still feel I should be able to maintain the home. I feel like less of a mom/woman not being able to keep up on household chores (and here I sit writing a blog lol) Oh well, maybe this new month will bring change, I certainly hope so. Our one goal we can both agree on is moving into a house (another rental though, sigh) instead of staying in this apartment. I’m hoping that will help alleviate some challenges, although it will bring about others (a tad bit more expensive) Good luck! Right? J
Soooo pissed!! I wrote a novel and now it's gone! As I hit send I thought to myself "I should have copied that" FML. UGHHHHHH
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry Nikki :( There was no "undo"?
ReplyDeletethe short of what I wrote:
ReplyDelete-I use Osama's death as NWT's topic of the week also.
-Prayers to the officer that was killed, and best wishes to the one that is injured. The world is a cold place sometimes. =(
-I still have to help Kin in the bathroom and she's been potty trained since Oct/Nov, and STILL has accidents! (ugh!)
-I bet Jules looks adorable with her ears pierced! I can't wait until Kin is ready so I can take her.
-Don't beat yourself up. You are amazing mom, and I give you MAD KUDOS for going to school. I gave up, couldn't do it. I also have a hard time balancing stuff. Right now I'm focusing on me, so that means going to the gym 6x/week, but it also means 28 piles of laundry shoved in baskets all kinds of wrinkled! Sink full of dishes, and hamburger helper for the kids bc it's quick and easy. You have the rest of your life to clean house & get organized. Thank God for a supportive husband, you are doing great things by furthering your education. XOXO -Nikki
(ps copied it this time, but of course now it will post. LOL stupid tech.)
I meant prayers to the officer's family.
ReplyDeleteAnd I am so thankful for all the troops who serve our country (and law enforcement that protect us!), and glad Osama was brought to justice.
I'm glad Osama dumb shit is dead to Jenna, I hate that people keep blaming it on the Muslims though...there are good and bad people in all faiths.
ReplyDeleteThe potty training...no more diapers...get her pull ups so she always feels she is in "panties". The diaper on at certain times, confuses them making them think sometimes it's okay, sometimes not. Pull ups are just thick panties and she will do much better.
Motivation and cleaing the house...my dear, make you a list of the things you do on a weekly basis. With a little one at home full time, you need to set aside maybe two or three days for the chores. Then set a schedule...I will dust and vaccum on this day, deep clean bathrooms on that day, laundry on whichever day. If you are scheduled when you are a stay at home mom, it makes things easier. I was a stay at home mom with my son so I know what you are going through. I can get overwhelming if you let it...scheduling...just like if you were working outside the home, you need to schedule and they'll be much less stress.
As you know, my prayers are with the fallen officer also... I didn't hear they caught the guy...need to catch up.
You're doing great sticking it out with school Jenna...you're not giving up, that's a big accomplishment. Stay positive my friend it will be all worth it.
Well that's my opinions...you know me, I'm full of them sometimes. Blessings to you and your family!
Cheryl