Respect

We may not agree with everything, or anything for that matter, that is said or commented on this blog. However, in order to participate, you MUST respect the opinions of others.

There is nothing saying your opinion cannot differ from that of others, but when sharing your opinion it must be presented in a respectful manner. There are right ways to debate and there are wrong ways (to argue). Please choose the right way: use proper English, refrain from cursing or using foul language (if a must for "emphasis" use symbols), no slurs based on race/ethnicity, sex/gender, or otherwise will be tolerated.

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Monday, March 7, 2011

Mmeeeoooow!! Retract your claws!!

Today has really got me thinking….what is up with women and their cattiness? Don’t get me wrong, not all women are catty…..but then there are some that never put their “claws” away. Is it something that comes and goes with age? We have all experience high school cliques, office drama, and all out cattiness between "frenemies".

We all have our bad days; true friends know and “try” to understand this. Well, there are also those who live their daily lives in the negative pessimistic cloud of emotions, “those” friends we usually choose to associate with occasionally. Who wants to be around negativity?
And don’t even get me started on those that would just like to use you as a scapegoat. They “say” they’ve done their due diligence but in reality they haven’t even tried to contact you, and then when it comes down to it they blame you for their shortcomings. Ok ok, “some” of the blame may rightfully fall on you, but not all of it! “Oh well, ‘so and so’ didn’t do their part, so it’s not our fault!” Oh, but wait, you did do your part, oh and even better, you turned it in “sort of on time”! (well, 5 mins late, but it would have been on time if for not having replied to the “catty” group)

*Sigh* maybe it was the lack of “back and forth” that incited this cat fight. But how can anyone expect you to sit on the computer waiting for something to be posted, read, and immediately replied to?  I will spare you the details, just needed to vent a bit of my frustrations. 

Feel free to share your recent frustration and “vent”. No judgments here, just some good old fashioned release of tension and stress! Thanks for listening to mine!